You can never “balance” a great truth about God. God is infinite. Every attribute of God is infinite. His love is extreme. His mercy is extreme. His justice is extreme. His grace is extreme. His faithfulness is extreme. When in our minds we try to explain in a balanced way an attribute of God, it is like an ant attempting to explain to a flea that an elephant is big but not to the extreme. There is just no frame of reference. Just embrace the truth that God is God, He is who He is, and be grateful!
Never allow the stretchers of truth to own a doctrine. I am a grace preacher. I am a prosperity preacher. I am a healing preacher. I am a faith preacher. I am a revival preacher. I am a River preacher. The winds of doctrine that Paul says blow through the church always involves the stretching of a great truth. Too many pastors then avoid the truth because they do not wish to be identified with the stretchers of the truth. My question is this, how else will people learn the truth unless we, as leaders, own the great doctrines that God has blessed us with? If you will teach the truth, then people will not go to the stretchers of the truth.